6 simple ways to deal with a moron

Sometimes in life, you can't escape having an encounter with a moron no matter how much you try to avoid them

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A morons is anyone who tries to bring you down, in any way possible- they are usually bullies, annoying exes, or random people who are up to no good and always want to make you feel bad.

Sometimes in life, you can't escape having an encounter with a moron no matter how much you try to avoid them.

They every where in the social chain and while you may not be able to avoid them, you can always put them in their place and make them remain there.

Andreena Sung of All Women Stalk lists a few ways to deal with that moron in your life:

1. Ignore: The best practice is just simply to IGNORE. You should be aware enough to understand that they are simply not worth your time and attention. So next time someone says something to you, and you don’t like it, don’t lose your cool or roll your eyes, SMILE, IGNORE AND MOVE ON. Let morons be morons, that is what they do the best.
2. Humor: Humour is a healthy way to dealing with such jerks. Make a joke out of it and continue to do whatever you’re up to. But this only works up to a certain limit, as of course everyone has a specific tolerance power. So if you can laugh and forget it, then it can save a lot of your time and energy.
3. Block it up: This goes for the random guys, who keep texting you or calling you. It can be an ex-boyfriend, a stalker or anybody as a matter of fact. Usually they start out all sweet like “Oh, you look more beautiful now” or “I missed you” and then it deteriorated in an accelerated velocity towards shit like “what happened to us” or “You look ugly, your sister looks hot” Like really? Don’t take their shit, you have better things to do in life! Block them from everywhere possible, but most importantly from your mind.
4. Comeback: They say something nasty, don’t hesitate to go a step further and throw something nastier in their face, well they asked for it. But a piece of warning, in many cases, it doesn’t end well, all you will end up with is a foul mouth and a bad mood. So, resort to comebacks only when there is a dire need for it.
5. Develop a thicker skin: Not literally. In this big bad world, it is essential to not let things get to you, and trust me there are many. Believe in yourself and everything that makes you and drives you, once you do that, you become immune to what everyone says or does.
6. Don't give a crap: You shouldn’t be giving a crap about it. Think about it, does it really matter what one person thinks about you, when there are 7 billion people on this planet? No it doesn’t. So let it go, it just isn’t worth it. And if you ever decide to give a crap, do remember that you’re the one losing not him.
7. Remember this: “Never argue with an idiot. They will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.” ― Sarah Cook

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7 reasons to have casual sex

For those who are seeking for reasons to have casual sex here are

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In this 21st century, there are lots of reasons to have casual sex! No matter how you try to see it, sometimes you just have to let your hair down and let sex just be sex!

For those who are seeking for reasons to have casual sex,Heather Jensen of Binoni lists a few fun reasons to just take that dive:

1. It's fun: Firstly, it's fun right? Sex is fun and while having a deep connection and being in love with someone is always great when having sex, sometimes, a lot of us don't have that luxury. That doesn't mean you should go without though! That's why, fun is the first reason to have casual sex!
2. No commitment: Not looking for a commitment? No worries! One of the reasons to have casual sex is because there is absolutely no commitment, there are no strings attached! You don't have to commit your time to him other than just to have sex. Who knows, it might feel good!
3. No promises: One of the greatest things about having casual sex is that there are no promises at all! You don't have to promise not only your time, but also promise anything to him. As long as the terms are clear, this is absolutely one of the best reasons to have casual sex!
4. Keep the lines clear: When you are thinking about having casual sex, one thing to keep in mind is having the lines completely clear. Remember, you are just having casual sex, this is not a relationship. That can be hard to get across sometimes, but in an effort to ensure that nobody gets hurt, make sure that the lines are completely clear.
5. Not emotional: This goes hand-in-hand with number #4. Ladies, if you are just having casual sex, it isn't all about emotions! There should be no real emotions, instead, it's all about sex and how the person you are with reacts!
6. You'll learn more about your sexuality: One of the biggest reasons to have casual sex that I think is beneficial is you'll learn a ton about your sexuality. You'll learn what you like, what you don't like, what the other person can do for you. It's a win, win situation! Then, when you are in a relationship relationship, you'll know exactly what to do behind closed doors!
7. You'll learn more about yourself emotionally: The next reason to have casual sex is that you'll actually learn a ton about yourself emotionally. You'll learn what you can take and what you can't, how you handle having any and all sex without any fear of commitment. You can actually learn a lot about yourself.

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7 valid reasons why abortion should still be illegal

Abortion is a subject that affects women and men in every part of the world and has been the cause of conflicts due to several opinions

• Published: 23.06.2015
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 (Students.com)The conversations and arguments about abortions will probably never be concluded due to different views of what is right or wrong concerning this delicate subject.

Abortion is a subject that affects women and men in every part of the world and has been the cause of conflicts due to several opinions. But this article specifically raises points why abortion should be considered illegal.

Aprille Ross of Binoni lists 7 reasons why abortion should never be made legal (Please feel free to share your opinion in the comment section):

1. It's ending a life: Some consider abortion to be murder since the being inside the mother is living. The definition of something living includes the ability to grow, which is exactly what is going on inside a woman who is pregnant. An abortion ceases the growing process, therefore ending the future life of a human being. This little being may not start off with a heartbeat or brain activity, but cells are still dividing and allowing it to grow.
2. The child doesn't have a choice: Children can’t and don’t ask to be born, this is purely an option only adults have. Whether the woman chose to get pregnant or not, pro-life individuals feel that abortion is taking the right to live from a human being. This is a right that an embryo cannot defend. Some people say that humans only get to exercise the right of choice once they are old enough to reason, but others feel that a competent adult can also speak for those who are unable to do so on their own.
3. Adoption is another option: Adoption is always brought up when people talk about aborting an unwanted child. The idea of aborting a child who would make a welcome addition to another family’s household is expressed by many pro-life individuals. There are tons of people who get rejected when they apply to adopt a child, which makes the idea of adoption seem far-fetched to these individuals. However, most people feel putting a child up for adoption is much better than going through an abortion.
4. Many women are endangered by abortions: Not all abortions are handled in a manner that is both sanitary and done by a professional. Abortions can be very expensive, which causes some women to seek services wherever possible. There have been quite a few cases of women dying, becoming sterile from a botched abortion, or ending up in the hospital with further complications. I don’t know if making abortions illegal would help this though. I do think that it would lessen the numbers of women who endanger their lives by looking for abortion services that aren’t up to par.
5. Doctors are supposed to save lives: The modern version of the Hippocratic Oath doctors take doesn’t specify that doctor are only to save people and make them better, but it is expected of them. The classic version of this oath actually has the phrase, ‘…I will not give to a woman an abortive remedy.’ and the original Hippocratic Oath states, ‘…I will not give a woman a pessary to cause an abortion.’ Any mention of not performing an abortion has been taken out of the Hippocratic Oath, but not from the minds of people who expect doctors to save lives.
6. Times have changed: Everything else has evolved over the year, so why not the idea of abortion? Sure, abortion, child abandonment, and even infanticide were all once permitted under Roman law, but that doesn’t make them humane. Leaving your child on someone’s doorstep or committing murder are both considered a major penalty, so why not abortion?
7. There would be less mental anguish caused: Women who go through an abortion  have to always carry that thought with them. They often wonder what their child would have looked like, acted like, and what type of person he/she would have been. No matter how strong a woman is, an abortion causes mental anguish that never truly goes away. At least with adoption a mother or father has the chance to see what their child has become.

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Cheating with no sex? 5 major signs you are having an emotional affair

Many still think an affair is just physically doing something with someone else, they hardly think of emotional affairs which are as painful or even more than having a physical affair

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Most people who have been heartbroken from being cheated on will say it's probably the most painful feeling ever.

Affairs over the years have torn engagements and marriages apart within a second but many still think an affair is just physically doing something with someone else. They hardly think of emotional affairs which are as painful or even more than having a physical affair.

How do you tell your partner is having an emotional affair?Krystle Crossman of Healthy Black Woman lists 5 signs that your partner may be having an emotional affair with someone:

1. Criticism – Often when someone is an emotional affair they become critical of their partner. They will begin to compare their current partner to the one that they are cheating with and try to find things that irritate them or that they don’t like about their partner. If they hear that someone is saying something bad about the person that they are cheating with they will become extremely defensive, especially if their current partner is the one saying these things.
2. Distance – As they grow closer to the other person that they are cheating with they will grow more and more distant from their partner. Conversations between them will slowly start to become non-existent or they will only answer questions in short sentences. They will make excuses as to why they cannot go out and do something with their current partner because they do not feel connected to them anymore.
3. Gut Feelings – When the person who is being cheated on has a feeling deep down that their partner is having an affair it should not be ignored. Usually when you have a deep gut instinct, there is a reason.
4. Secrets – When someone is having an emotional affair they become very secretive. They will change all of their passwords to emails and such if their partner knows what they are. They will take phone calls in a different room. They will keep their phone on them at all times so there is never a chance that their current partner may see who is calling or who they are texting.
5. Social Media – Some people are not really into the social media craze. They may have Facebook or Twitter account but until they start having an emotional affair they never really use it. This could be their only way of communicating with this person and they will begin to be on these social media sites constantly. They may also be glued to their cell phone like never before.

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Caitlyn Jenner vs Kris Jenner; Who Wore The Wrap Animal Print Dress Better?

When your husband wears your kind of dress and is looking slightly better than you, it is a PROBLEM! Bruce Jenner who is now Caitlyn Jenner stepped out wearing this wrap dress looking like his Ex-wife. Who wore the dress better?

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7 steps to striking a conversation with your crush you've never talked to

It would be really awkward if you approach someone you like and suddenly become tongue tied because you have no idea where to start a conversation from

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 (Shutterstock)How do you strike up a person you've never talked to before, especially if that person is your crush?

It would be really awkward if you approach someone you like and suddenly become tongue tied because you have no idea where to start a conversation from.

Heather Jensen of All Women Stalk lists 7 tips on how to strike up a conversation with your crush, even if you've never talked to him.

1. Introduce yourself: First and foremost girls, you've got to introduce yourself to him! This is the first step when you're learning how to strike up a conversation with your #crush that you've never talked to. Tell him your name, give up some small details about yourself and just put yourself out there. I know it's hard, but trust me, it'll be worth it once he remembers your name!
2. Compliment him: After you've given your name to him, the next thing that you should be doing is flirting a #little bit! Being #flirty is a great way to get to know your crush and to make sure that he feels comfortable. The next tip on how to strike up a conversation with your #crush you've never talked to is to compliment him. Do you like his #eyes? His shirt? His clothes? #Compliment something about him! It'll make #things less awkward.
3. Comment on the location: If you are running out of #things to talk about and you are still trying to strike up a conversation with your crush, why not comment on the location? Are you at school, why not talk about some of your classes? This is a great way to really make sure that your #crush is really comfortable with you!
4. Open-ended questions: One of the biggest #things that you need to remember when you are learning how to strike up a conversation is to make sure that you are asking open-ended questions. You don't want to ask a ton of questions that he can answer yes or no to because truthfully, you won't get any answers or really get to know him.
5. Listen to his body language: You can pick up a lot from his body language if you listen to it the right way! Girls, this is one of the biggest tips that I can pass along – pay #attention to how he stands, what his face looks like, what his hands do and how often he looks around. These are all things that mean something and #things that matter!
6. Use flirtatious body cues: For your body language, it should all be #flirty! You could cock a hip here, smile a lot, bat your #eyelashes a bit and maybe even touch him on the shoulder or arm once in a while. All of your body language cues should revolve around the fact that you like him and that you want him to like you.
7. Keep up the same pace: When you finally do get a conversation going, you want to make sure that you are keeping up the exact same pace with him. You want the conversation to flow easily and that boils down to the pace, so just keep it up with him and you'll be fine girls, promise!
8. Practice: Finally, practice! You know that practice makes perfect and I can honestly say that it works this #time. When you are first learning how to strike up a conversation, you've got to make sure that you are prepared. This means that you should get in front of a mirror and just state your introduction and your cues in that, to see how you #look.

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Ebube Nwagbo Vs Beyonce; Who Wore The Colour Block Ensemble Better?

Ebube just pulled a fashion stunt! Mixing colours. Beyonce did the same thing some months back and it didn’t come out bad.
Fashionistas in the house, what do you think? Who rocked it better?

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SPIRITUAL KONJI MATTERS-Masturbating girl has cucumber stuck inside her private part

A lady who used a cucumber as an improvised sex toy is in trouble as the vegetable broke and got stuck in her.According to a Blackberry message that has been making the rounds, a female student of the University of Nigeria, Nsukka, was so horny that she decided to use a huge cucumber as a sex toy to masturbate but the experiment turned out nasty as she ended up in the hospital after the vegetable broke and got stuck inside her.

According to the story, the girl had taken advantage of the absence of her roommates to have a quickie session and must have been carried away in the heat of the moment when the 'veggie' tool snapped and would not come out.

It was her screams that brought others into the room and found her bleeding profusely. She was rushed to the school's medical center and the doctors recommended a quick surgery to remove the cucumber but they had to get the permission of her parents.

But the girl sneaked out of the facility and has not been seen since then.

Read the BB message here.

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Annie Idibia Slays In Chic Ensemble On A Night Out With Friends In New York

All work and no play makes you a dull chic.
We bet that is Annie Idibia’s mantra right now.
The beautiful mother of two is in America for work and while she has shown us several shots of her working her ass off on set, she is now showing us pictures of her having fun with friends!
 
Annie who rocked black pants, a long jacket and a lacy crop, finished the look with heels and a black hat.
The actress reunited with her old friends, one which she described as her sister of fifteen years and the other, Nigerian OAP, Dayo Ephraim.
Earlier in the day, the hot mama posted a selfie of her in the same ensemble.
Lots of pictures from a night out is usually equal to a fun night out. So I think it is safe to say she had fun.
Are you feeling her look?

Photos: Instagram/AnnieIdibia

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Man marries sex doll, gushes about his love for 'her'

A man who decided to break out from lonely ended up with marrying a real life sex doll.

Strange things happen everyday which makes one to wonder if the end of the world is not finally here.

People have married dogs, goats, trees but an American man called Dirk, tops it all by getting married to a sex doll he names Jenny and he has been gushing about how much he loves her and cannot change her for anything in the world.

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Dirk who bought his doll 'bride' for a whopping sum of $6,750, believes Jenny is the best thing to ever happen to him and he has vowed to love, support and share their private lives together.

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The strange couple who have been together for four years, do everything every normal couple do, including sex which Dirk says is very explosive

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Dirk says he decided to marry Jenny  after he suffered a breakdown from feeling lonely. He bought her and they had a normal wedding and since then, the dotting Dirk has been dotting on Jenny, doing everything for her like the caring husband he is.

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He says he talks to her and can hear her, and perceive her soul, believing she speaks back.

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A photographer, Sandra Hoyn, chronicles the couples day to day activities in pictures

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Dirk says:

“I can’t live without love. My loneliness destroyed me. Jenny is such a sensitive being. She is so helpless.”

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See the photos of Dirk and his 'wife' as captured by Hoyn.

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Nigerian drug trafficker arrested in India after four years chase

A Nigerian high profile drug trafficker has been arrested by Indian authorities for attempting to smuggle drugs
Samnneji Chukwuemeka, 40, aka Moses Jeffery was arrested by India's Customs officials in New Delhi India on Friday June 26th.
Samnneji has been on the radar of the Indian police since 2011 after his attempt to smuggle drugs from India to Holland was foiled.
Superintendent of Customs (Preventive), Shillong, D. Bhattacharjee, said in a statement to the press:
"He has been under security radar for nearly four years after we foiled his attempt to smuggle 645 grams of brown sugar (heroin) from Shillong to Holland way back in August 2011 through a courier agency. Finally, we managed to arrest Chukwuemeka only after the immigration cell at New Delhi alerted us that he has been detained by Delhi Police for over staying in India."

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Apple's gay CEO speaks on marriage equality ruling

The US Supreme Court ruled on Friday that bans on same-sex marriage are unconstitutional, which makes it legal in all 50 states.

Reports reveal that tech leaders in Silicon Valley are speaking out about the U.S. Supreme Court ruling that says same-sex marriage is "the law of the land."

One of the first reactions came from Tim Cook, Apple CEO, who is gay, has long been a public champion of human rights.

Last July, he marched with other Apple employees at San Francisco's Pride march.

On Friday, Cook's tweets were eloquent and to the point:

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“The people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world are the ones who do.”

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