No doubt, singer, Chidimma Ekile, is the crush of many male artistes in Nigeria. But the irony is despite all the admirers, she seems not to have found the right person.
In aCHAT recently, the singer when asked about her relationship status answered,“ Why I am still single? Maybe, because I’m yet to see the man who is made for me or the person is yet to find me. So I am single and happy. The fact is I had few friends and some wanted to take the relationship seriously, but it never worked out. Though, I have a lot of male friends around me, but there has never been anything serious. Several stars have been crushing on me, in fact, I thought I would have been crushed by now. But to be honest, am dating none of them.
File: Flavour and Chidinma
For Adams, if I start telling you about him, we won’t leave here. He’s my good friend. We both insult each other every time. When the story came out, I was not surprised because we both are very close.
For Flavour, music brought us together and nothing more and if he had asked me out the answer would have been a capital ‘NO’.
When your man is bad in bed, please do not to fake your orgasm. Please don’t do it even if you feel that doing so would make everything fine and make things end in a climax. Even if it will affirm his hardwork and soothe his ego, try not to do it. Do not fake your orgasm. Don’t do it. A major part of having an enjoyable sex life is opening your mind to learning and in truth, we all aren’t as good as we are now. What complicates the life of a sexual novice more is making him feel all he was doing is appropriate and right despite the fact that he would have that little throbbing thought at the back of his mind asking him repeatedly if what you told him was the sincere truth.
Moreover, your guy might not be so much of an amateur at the sex game. You may be one of the ladies on his list of conquered women and he was only able to have that much women because most faked orgasms and told him half hearted truths about the issue. His shallow knowledge of the female anatomy might be ascribed to the fact that he’s new sexually or he may be a poor imitation of what it means to be good and attentive over a long period of time. It may be that when he’s on top of you, the thrusting becomes painful enough to make you numb, it’s probably at that point you want to pretend to climax so that he can get there too if only to make him stop.
Going on for that long believing such would only make him someone that is bad and revels in it. We all owe it to one another to be as honest as possible sexually. A lot of women have learnt how not to communicate how they feel in the bedroom. They are still uncomfortable with oral sex because they’re ashamed of their physical appearance including their body and hair. Some women have learnt to hide themselves from asking for the kind of pleasure they may have mastered from her own touch. Such women see sex as a chore of everyday life that must be attended to even if it provides some moment of intimacy at the risk of clumsy touches.
But there is nothing wrong with saying what you want It’s essential you say the things you want. Let him know what part of your body drives you wild. Show him the best way to navigate through your all the complicated parts of your body. It’s never too late to learn and by faking your orgasm, you’d only be postponing doomsday.
He will want to be better Allowing him know what to do will bring out the best in him. He wouldn’t like to be the butt of jokes or why you had to pretend that you enjoyed being with him. It is hard for anyone to want to imagine that their effort and hardwork is being used as jokes through which you bond with your female friends. Help him feel relief that everyone has bad days for bad sex too.
Let that bad sex stop with you. Try not to exaggerate your cries of pleasure. It’s ideal that you’re that type of woman who has no fear of stating what she wants or correct her guy when he makes a wrong move. And perhaps, if the relationship ends for reasons beyond your control, you will be leaving him a better man. A man that understands how to help his woman achieve orgasm and enjoy all aspects of her sexual life. Teach him not just because you want the best from him but for the general betterment of society.
Amber Rose was spotted flirting with Kris Humphries few days ago, She broke up with Machine Gun Kelly sometimes last week and she seem to be having a nice time with a new guy
According to HollywoodLife.com, Rose was spotted flirting with Kris Humphries (clearly to spit Kim Kardashian) at Midsummer Night’s Dream Party at the Playboy Mansion on Saturday night August 1st, 2015.
“Amber and Kris were not only flirting, but getting intimate with PDA,” an insider reveals, adding that “they were all over each other at the bar for awhile.” Micheal Sartain wrote; right now I’m at the #PlayboyMansion watching Amber Rose flirt with Kris Humphries. I can’t make this stuff up.”
360nobs Presents Chef Banky W In The Kitchen As He Serves Us Food As Good As His Music
This isn’t a Nollywood movie; it’s the real thing. Banky W got into the kitchen to cook for the 360nobs.com crew.
Stephanie Ani and 360nobs.com paid a foodie visit to Banky W or Chef W, as he’d rather be known; and we got treated to a fabulous meal of barbecued, grilled chicken kebabs and pasta with sautéed shrimp and chicken.
In the video below, Chef W, who just released his newest single “High Note“, tells us how he“eats healthy every night” (Pun intended), shows us how to make the meal step by step and in the end serves us a meal as good as his music
Enjoy the 1st of many 360Nobs on TV videos. You can also download Banky W’s latest single – “High Note” below.
Stephanie Ani on 360 Kitchen paid a visit to Banky W or Chef W, as he’d rather be known. And he treated her to a fabulous meal of barbecued, grilled chicken kebabs and pasta with sautéed shrimp and chicken.
Welcomed warmly by Chef W, Stephanie walks into his posh home. He is ready for business and she is invited into his kitchen to watch him do his thing. He is comfortable, unlike most guys who view their kitchens as torture chambers. Banky makes Stephanie wear an apron after teasing her about not having one, and begins the order of the day.
Banky is quite talkative in the kitchen and maybe that’s because Ani is there as company. But he seems like a guy who, even when all alone, would still have a good time cooking. We think he’ll be listening to Marvin Gaye or New Edition or Boyz 2 Men and adding a step or two here and there while things steam up. Banky is all shades of romantic in the kitchen, if there is any such thing.
He gives Stephanie a brief history of how he found his love for cooking. He tells her it all started in the university with the little things he could storm up together to have a decent meal, but he got serious with it when last summer, during an E.M.E tour to the States, he decided he was tired of eating out and letting cooks do everything for him; hence, he thought it was time to be the boss of his own kitchen. Google helped him a lot, though and he made Wizkid and Skales his test subjects in those early days. As he marinates some chicken in a bowl, we know it all paid off as he does it with the ease of a man who is worth his salt.
Stephanie touches on the subject of dieting and he is quite honest with his answer. He likes rice and pasta and other carby stuff and he notes that he’s a grown man and can eat without feeling guilty.
“I just do what I want, and I work out, you know, making better life decisions.”
He emphasizes to Stephanie the importance of caring about one’s health when he adds: “Clean up your diet a lil’ bit. Work out a lil’ bit… I’m having a great life; I don’t want it to end quickly.”
As he brings together the ingredients of his meal, Stephanie throws in a controversial topic that has caused many a debate in social media circles today. Following the rise of women that are shifting away from the traditional roles of housewife who mainly clean and cook, Stephanie wants to know what he thinks about the other group of women that still find it really uncomfortable to have a man cook for them. Banky is forward with his answer and he gets an award from me for the most progressive male celebrity in Nigeria. He throws back at Stephanie on the issue of a woman’s place in the kitchen, letting her know he’s not so big on that school of thought. Using herself, she cites an example, explaining further why certain women still feel it is their duty alone to handle the kitchen. But he is resolute on what he thinks the modern day relationship should be. It’s a two-way street for him. The woman can cook but the man should want to spoil her sometime, stating that it’s a beautiful thing if he does. We really do wish our Naija brothers would take note. There’s nothing as sexy as a man trying to conjure up a meal, even if he leaves the kitchen in blazes at the end of the day. But with the way Banky does it, it goes to show that the kitchen is a place men can sink their teeth into.
Now sporting his own very manly apron, Chef W sautés the chicken, cooks the pasta, takes little sips of wine and converses with Stephanie who is also helping out in the little way she can. No doubt she is having a great time and it all comes to a climax when she is presented with this beautiful-looking ensemble of pasta, shrimp, chicken and yeah, some vegetable too. She has her first taste and she is in love – with the food, that is. In fact, she loves it so much, she would rather eat than talk. And Banky stands by, smiling in confidence because he is Mr. Capable, giving her a taste of his W experience.
For a grown man to be able to care for a woman, he should know how to care for himself first. Banky W knows this and we think he has also found out what most guys are yet to know, that the way into a woman’s heart is sometimes by entering her kitchen and facing the heat.
A lady in Owerri is claiming to have slept with 600 men in the past year.This is not a joke. A student of a vocational school in Owerri,Imo State, claims she has slept with 600 men in the past year. Thats almost two men per day.
We might think it an exaggeration considering there would be days she's menstruating, but the woman seems quite sure, Sunday Sun reports.
According Sunday Sun, the lady reported to ply the oldest trade in the world when her boyfriend who was sponsoring her education broke up with her.
She said,
“My boyfriend whom I met at Onitsha, Anambra State when I went to visit an uncle was sponsoring my education. We had agreed to get married as soon as possible. Then some people I regarded as friends started peddling wicked lies against me and without confirming if what they were saying was true or false, he called it quits just like that. They told him I had an incurable disease. So, I decided to help myself because my parents cannot do anything for me. We are poor” she explained.
She said the first night a man had her and paid her N15,000 changed everything.
“They were paying me N10,000 a month and you work late hours. But if you go out to hustle in the night, you can get that kind of money within a day or two. About 600 men slept with me from last year to this year.”
Now the lady is tired and wants to retire. Read excerpts of her conversation with a Sun reporter below:
How much were you making per night? Sometimes N5,000 or more. Sometimes a man will sleep with you and in the morning he will start telling you stories, saying he has no money. In such situation what do you do? What can you do? You just go home. When did you start hustling? Last year. About how many men have you slept with? About 600 men slept with me from last year to this year. How many since you started? That is all, sir. Are you truly promising that you won’t do prostitution again? Yes, I promise. How many abortions have you done? Two times. I’m telling you the truth. Do you have children? No. Do you really mean that you slept with only 600 men from last year to this year? Yes. Can you remember the first time you had sex? 2009. The person was your boyfriend? Not really a friend. How? He impregnated me and left me. I was in SS3. That happened in 2009. How old were you when he got you pregnant? 18 years. My final year in secondary school. Did you complete secondary school? Yes. Did you abort the pregnancy? Yes. You did it in a hospital or chemist shop? Yes, in a hospital. The man gave me money to abort it. How much? N15,000 Who took you to the hospital? My girlfriend. How old was the pregnancy? One month. Did you tell your parents about the pregnancy? No. How long did you date the man? He was not my friend. So, what happened? My girlfriend and I were going to my uncle’s place in Asaba but somehow, I lost the address of the place. So we were stranded that night; we didn’t know what to do. We now met the man and told him what happened to us. He now accommodated us in his house. That night, he gave me food to eat. The following day I left. I did not know I was pregnant. Did he rape you? Something like that. The food I ate made me sleep off. Was he the first man to sleep with you? Yes. Your girlfriend also slept in the same house Yes, with the guy’s friend. His friend slept with your friend? I don’t know. She did not tell me. When did you get pregnant for the second time? Who did it? My boyfriend. He asked you to abort it? No. He wanted to marry me but I don’t like him for marriage. How old was the pregnancy before the abortion? One month. Do you like sex? Please, why are you asking me all these questions? No. I don’t. But I will for my loved one. Hope you are now using condoms? Yes. Have you done HIV test? Yes. When? Last two months. Why? Did you suspect that you were infected? How? No. Why did you go for the test? Nothing. I just went. There must be a reason for doing that. Tell me the truth Ok. A man came to seek my hand in marriage. That was why I went. Why didn’t you marry him? I don’t like him. How much did you save from hustling? I don’t have any money, please. What did you do with the money you made? I used it to take care of my school fees, house rent and myself. How much are your school fees and house rent? My school fees is N20,000 while my house rent is N100,000 a year. It is a self-contain apartment but I have a roommate. Do you go to church? Yes. I do. After sleeping with a man in a hotel at night, you go to church in the morning? Not always. Why did you stop hustling? I’m tired of it. Is it because you are no longer making enough money? It’s not like that. I want to settle down. I’m tired. You are tired of everyday sex? Yes. I want to marry. I need God’s help in my life. If a man offers you like N20,000 for a night, will you reject it? Yes. I’m tired. Please sir, I need help. I only look up to God for help. When was the last time you went out on business? I can’t remember the date but it was on a Sunday. I think it was in May. So, no amount of money can make you do it? Yes sir. Will you confess to your husband when you marry that you slept with more than 600 men in one year? Yes. If he is the one that will understand me, I will. You will confess before or after marriage? Before. When you were active in the business, you used to sleep with several men in a day? Maybe. Have you slept with two men at once? No. I don’t do that. Do you sleep with your fellow students and teachers? No. Have you ever made love with a woman? No. Is your roommate also a student-prostitute? No. But she has a boyfriend. And she doesn’t advise you? No. But she knows that you sleep around? Yes. Her parents are rich. Your parents don’t ask you how you are managing in school? I tell them that my boyfriend is helping me. Were you into blow jobs? I don’t understand you. Were you giving your customers blow jobs? I’m not feeling fine. I’m very sick. Answer the question No. Please stop. Answer. Do you charge extra for blow jobs? Please, I don’t know what to say to you. Were you into blow jobs? Yes. But not all customers. Those who ask for it? No. if I like, I do it. Do you charge extra for that? No. Why do you want to know? Do you enjoy it? No. Why then were you doing it? I just feel like doing it some times. How does sperm taste? Please can you tell me why you are asking me all these questions? Please, I don’t know. I know that I need help from God but I don’t want to answer this kind of questions. Is the girl you travelled to Asaba with also a prostitute? Please I don’t know. She is a student. Which school? Unilag. Have you ever been arrested by the police? No. I want to link you with an NGO that rehabilitates prostitutes. Your life will be turned around. How? I don’t understand. Hmmm. Me? Permanent solution to your problem Prostitutes? That means you don’t like me. Ladies looking for men to sleep with are called prostitutes or harlots. You were doing that Yes I know. But not now. Ok. You are a retired prostitute No. I’m not a prostitute.
Good guys are the best you can wish or think for several reasons but unfortunately, they never seem to hit the right chords with the ladies. This is so despite their calm and understanding nature which most women seem to misinterpret as a sign of weakness. Different women have different reasons for wanting to embark on a relationship with a guy. This may range from the simple to the seemingly bizarre. For instance, some women date some guys for money and security while others date men for their physical appearance and nature.
However, the good guys fall short in the scale of preference of women in general for some inexplicable reasons. Some of these reasons are:
They completely forget women have a sexual side to them
Good guys a lot of the time see women as friends and confidante whom they can pour out their minds to while completely forgetting that they have a sexual side to them. The sexual side is where the bad guys get it easy as they have a some level of mastery when it comes to that. Good guys fail to realise that being nice is not enough to get the girls and is never enough for a girl to want to date you. As a good guy, you need to understand that it takes a whole lot of other qualities and factors to make dating occur or create any form of sexual chemistry.
They don’t always go for the nice girls either
This is perhaps the albatross of good guys. The nice guys always seem to find it difficult to go for the nice girls perhaps due to the natural law of attraction of “opposites attract”. If the good guys ever think of dating the nice girls, it might be for what you’d never expect – sex. That’s mostly because they do not see any nice girl as one they can introduce to their friends and family, mostly because they have an unreal expectation that their being nice is enough to get them the woman of their dreams.
They are aggressive in a passive way
Nice guys usually expect women to have an inkling of the way they feel and as such find it difficult to express themselves or say the things going on through their minds. It is normal to hear the good guys complain about how they feel they are being used by the girls they like but the fact is they are mostly scared to take a stand by letting them know how they feel, what their stands are on issues and what they expect from the women in general.
They seem completely ingenuine
The fact that a lot of good guys are fond of acting as if everything is OK all the time even when they are facing serious challenges make the ladies wary of them. The fact is everyone has bad days, just as everyone has made mistakes sometimes in the past. It is somewhat difficult to relate with someone who is perceived as one who hasn’t passed through any form of struggle in their lives. Even if as a guy, you appear as someone who has gone through quite a bit of travails but fail to reveal some of those obstacles you’ve passed through either in your professional or personal life, it would seem as if you’re fake and hiding some serious stuffs.
The only guy who would label himself a nice guy is one who is reflecting on an excuse about why he doesn’t get the things he wants
The ladies don’t want you to grumble or constantly make excuses for why you’re not able to get the things you want or achieve your set goals. A girl doesn’t want a guy that takes her out but becomes pissed if he’s not able to get her in bed at the end of the outing or one that gives her gifts while expecting to get something in return (usually sex-related). Actions like these negates the good guy that was initially portrayed from the beginning. It’s great to keep it at the back of your mind that doing something nice for someone doesn’t necessarily make them obligated to want to date you or have sex with you.
As a host of a talent reality TV show, are you allowed to kiss an audience? Find out in the video belowNow thatNick Cannonis single again, it was no problem selecting him for relationship expert who wanted to teach people how to kiss on 'America's Got Talent'. On Tuesday, July 7.
Joanna Kennedy teaches Nick Cannon to kiss on 'America's Got Talent'
(telegraph)
Joanna Kennedy, a self-professed “passion and intimacy expert,” said for her audition, she would consist of a kissing lesson and she needed a volunteer, Howard Stern didn’t hesitate to point out the show’s host. “I know of someone who recently became single. And based on what I hear in his dressing room, I’m going to nominate our very own Nick Cannon,” said the judge.
Cannon tried to resist, saying,but after the crowd insisted and a a pretty volunteer was also picked out of the crowd, Nick bulged.
Nick Cannon gets kissing lessons on 'America's Got Talent'
(hollywoodlife)
Cannon dramatically threw off his jacket but wasn’t allowed to touch her at first, and was instructed to “say hello with yours eyes” and “make her feel really comfortable.” He was then told to put “one hand behind her heart” and caress her cheek.
After so many 'boos' and X buzzes from the rest of the judges, Cannon was given permission to seal the deal... But did he really kiss the lady? Find out below:
Check out these top 10 Nigerian celebrity couples. We list them in no particular order.
Chris Attoh And Damilola; The lovebirds met on a movie set, fell in love with each other and got married on the 14th of February this year.
GbenroAjibadeAndOsas; Soap opera brought them together, they had their engagement wedding on the 20th of june this year and the official white wedding is coming up on the 4th of july this same year.IykeAndFlorence Okechukwu; They both attended the same university, tinsel brought them together after a long while and they got married in April 2013.Austin Faani And Chacha; Nollywood brought them together and they got married two years ago.TchidiChikereAndNuella; Happily married nollywood stars met on a movie set and got married on the 30th of march 2014.Joseph Yobo And Adaeze; The hot footballer have been married to his ex-beauty Queen since 2009 and they are still waxing stronger.Tuface And Annie; One of the famous musicians and sexy actress have been doing great since they got married on the 23rd of march 2013.Teebillz Balogun And Tiwa; The music couple have been married since 26th of April 2014 and they are still really doing great.
Johnson and Toyin; The tinsel actor married his beautiful actress wife on the 8th of july 2013 and they are still looking good together.
Afeez Owo And Mide Martins; Movie actor and producer have been married to actress Mide Martins for a long time and they still looking young and cute.
Jealousy could scatter your thoughts in different parts and bring out the ugliness in youTo be jealous makes you human but when it becomes too excessive, it could cause irreparable damage to your relationship and self-esteem.
Jealousy could scatter your thoughts in different parts and bring out the ugliness in you. But to curb it, you'll need to collect and rearrange the way you think.
As difficult as it is, you'll have to train and practice how to think differently and you'll be be surprised that it'll be a part of you in no time. No matter how bad your emotions get, you're strong enough to control them.
Holly Riordan of All Women State lists a few tricks to help you overcome your jealousy:
Work on your relationships: If you truly trust that your partner will never leave you or #cheat on you, then there's nothing to be jealous about. Even if a #beautiful girl pops up on TV or walks by in a bar, the thought of going after her won't cross his mind. That's why the best way to get rid of your jealousy is to take a close #look at your relationship and work on fixing the reasons why you're doubting your man's faithfulness.
Change your appearance: If you get jealous of every girl you see with #beautiful hair, head to the salon to get yours cut. If you get jealous of celebrities who live in mansions, put in a lot of effort at work so you can get a promotion and save up your #money for a nice house of your own
Ignore your bad qualities: Make a list of the things that you like about yourself, and what you don't like about yourself. Now, for the next week, avoid looking at those negative #things when you walk past a mirror. Only allow yourself to #look at the beautiful aspects of yourself. When you start viewing yourself as pretty, you'll stop being so jealous of every beauty queen you see.
Don't compare yourself to others: What's the point in comparing yourself to the celebrities you see on magazines or the strangers you see on the street? You aren't entering a competition against them. They're just normal #people like you are, so there's no reason to judge them (or yourself).
Become inspired by other girls: If you see a #woman with a cute shade of lipstick on, don't be jealous of her. Ask her where she got it so you can buy it yourself. Instead of being jealous of the pretty #things you see, use them as motivation. Allow #beautiful women to inspire you to buy new makeup products and outfits.
Find the root of the cause: Why exactly are you jealous of the valedictorian of your school? Is it because you wish you could go to a good #college like she will, because you wish you could give a speech in front of everyone like she will, or because your parents are disappointed that you didn't do as well as she did? Once you find the root of the problem, it'll be easier to fix it.
Focus on yourself: If you have a severe issue when it comes to jealousy, it's probably due to your own insecurities. That's why you should take some time for yourself in order to figure out how you could build your self-esteem. The more #time alone you have, the more you'll learn to love yourself. Once you do, your jealousy will disappear.
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